I was reading through mt email and this is one Jess sent to me and I find it really meaningful.
What Keeps A Relationship Strong
- Trust
- Communicate
- Intimacy
- A Sense of Humor
- Sharing Tasks
- Daily Exchanges (notes, food, hugs, call, etc.)
- Sharing Common Goals and Interests
- Giving Each Other A Place to Grow Without Feeling Insecure
- Giving Each Other A Sense of Belonging and Assurance of Commitment
- Concern and Care For Your Lover In Your Own Ways
Well, like what the email said - sometimes people fall in love too easily. They are literally blinded by love. All these are just lust and affection, the wants of not being along and the desire to satisfy sexual needs. But love is not explain in that matter. And in fact, love grow daily. The more you put effort in it, the more you reap. Love does not fade when you let it grows. In marriage, either people will grow more love for one another, or grow the distance and get divorce.
Therefore, in the start of the relationship, clearly know what you want from this person - is it just sex, or do you want to make him/her your wife and life partner? Do you share common interests and goals in life?
If you do, congratulations. You found yourself your life partner.. :D
Think clearly what you really want. Don't make the mistake and wake up the next morning and found a ring on your finger and get the shock of your life..
~belle~
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